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How To Plan a Successful Wedding Ceremony

November 15, 2023

The success of your wedding ceremony depends entirely on your planning. I love to help my brides and grooms plan their wedding, because from a photographer’s point of view – there are a lot of things that couples simply don’t know to plan for. And more than anything, I want you to have a successful wedding ceremony!!

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How to Plan a Successful Wedding Ceremony

A well-planned wedding ceremony will have different activities, and the time for accomplishing them is outlined in a timeline. When you have a detailed wedding timeline, your efforts at having a successful wedding are on the right track, and you can easily check for what’s lacking in your items and activities. With every couple I work with, we put together a detailed timeline from a photography standpoint, so everyone knows where to be and when. It also helps ensure that everything my couple wants documented on their wedding day is planned and documented!

While good planning creates a strong foundation for having a successful wedding, different items go into it. A good wedding plan involves gathering and marking items, such as flowers, electronics, and furniture for the wedding, and noting activities for which they’ll be needed. Therefore, the key to a successful wedding ceremony is to get these individual items and activities right.

After perusing this article, you’ll understand the steps to take in planning a successful wedding ceremony. You will also understand what a successful wedding ceremony actually is.

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When is Your Wedding Ceremony a Success?

Many couples believe that a successful wedding is one where their ideas are perfectly translated into the wedding decor and theme, and they may be right. However, an experienced wedding planner understands that a successful wedding requires more than a decor and theme that suits the couple.

To determine the success of a wedding ceremony, it must check the following boxes:

  • The existence of an emotional connection between the couple and their guests to the ceremony.
  • Personalized decor and theme that satisfy the couple’s dream wedding.
  • Wedding program crafting and execution that involves the guests as much as possible.
  • Inclusion of memorable moments charged with emotions, truth, and entertainment for the couple and guests.
  • Abundance of food and drinks to satisfy the guests.
  • Smooth transition from one activity to the other.

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Steps to Planning a Successful Wedding

As your wedding is approaching and you’re looking to make it a success, the challenges can be overwhelming. However, let go of your worries and consider these steps after choosing your wedding date to help you make your planning for a successful wedding easier:

Create a Guest List

A guest list is a pivotal early step in planning a successful wedding. Begin by sitting down with your partner and outlining who you’d like to share your special day with. Consider factors like your budget and the capacity of your chosen venue.

Include close family and friends, but keep the list manageable. It’s a delicate balance between ensuring everyone necessary is present and maintaining an intimate atmosphere. 

My rule of thumb? If you wouldn’t send them a Christmas card, they probably don’t need to be invited to your wedding.

Choose a Venue

Part of the important discussion you should have with your partner is your wedding venue preference. A couple prefers indoor, outdoor, formal, or casual. Your choice of venue can set the tone for your wedding, so choose a place that resonates with your vision and theme. I have actually started to put together lists of my favorite wedding venues that you can look at!

Consider the location’s accessibility for guests. Think about the capacity to accommodate your guest list comfortably. Check the availability of your desired date, and book well in advance to secure your dream location.

Hire Vendors

Vendors will reduce the stress of wedding planning on you. Begin by researching and interviewing potential vendors like photographers, caterers, florists, and entertainment. Look at their portfolios, read reviews, and ask for referrals.

Communicate your vision and budget clearly with each other to ensure they can meet your expectations once you’ve made your selections, and sign contracts that outline all the details, including costs, services, and timelines. Definitely be sure to read your contracts before signing!

My biggest tip? Your guests will remember these three things: the Food, the Photos and the Fun. Don’t skimp out of these three things!

Get Wedding Rings

Your wedding band is an integral part of the ceremony. Therefore, source for wedding bands where you can find options that suit your style while considering factors like metal type, style, and budget.

It’s essential to choose rings that reflect your taste and symbolize your commitment to each other. Visit jewelry stores to explore different options and try on various ring styles to find the perfect fit.

Choose Wedding Attire

Your wedding attire forms part of the physical attraction of the ceremony. Therefore, consider the event’s formality and the season when choosing.

For the bride, begin shopping for the wedding dress well in advance, as it may require alterations. Grooms should choose a suit or tuxedo that complements the bride’s attire. Also, feel free to choose attire that suits your wedding theme.

Plan the Ceremony

Yes, you’ve been planning your wedding day, but now, your focus should be on the ceremony. This step involves paying attention to every activity and item in the ceremony to ensure its success.

Work on the script, including vows, readings, and cultural or symbolic rituals. Coordinate with your chosen officiant, whether a religious leader or a friend ordained for the occasion. Ensure the ceremony reflects your love story and values, making it meaningful and heartfelt.

Craft a Wedding Day Timeline

You need something to keep your big day organized and running smoothly; that’s where a wedding day timeline comes in. Outline the sequence of events, from getting ready in the morning to the reception in the evening. Include time for travel, hair and makeup, and any pre-ceremony rituals.

Coordinate with vendors, such as photographers and caterers, to align their schedules with your timeline. Share the timeline with your bridal party and key family members so everyone knows where to be and when. Be sure to build in some buffer time to handle unexpected delays.

Big tip no one thinks of? Plan in 5-10 minutes after the ceremony just for you and your new spouse. It’s literally going to probably be the only time the two of you have absolutely alone your whole wedding day, and my couples have always been super grateful to have this pre-planned time for each other.

Start Beauty and Grooming

Grooming and beauty preparations are essential to look and feel your best on your wedding day. Book an appointment with a skincare and beauty professional months before your wedding day, and let them guide you on a beauty, skincare, and grooming journey that suits you.

Maintain a skincare routine in the weeks leading up to the wedding to achieve a healthy glow. On the wedding day, allow plenty of time for hair and makeup, and make sure you’re relaxed and ready for the day.

Pro tip? Whatever time you think you need to be ready, pad in at least thirty minutes. So if you need to be ready at noon, tell your beauty team you need to be done at 11:30. Why? Because hair and makeup is almost always where timelines go off the rails, and if we can do anything to avoid stress – this is an easy thing to do!

Decor and Theme

Your preferred theme influences your wedding decor, and consistency in your decor and theme will create a visually appealing and cohesive ambiance that sets the stage for a successful wedding celebration. Therefore, it is one of the most important things you must discuss with your planner.

Consider color schemes, floral arrangements, table settings, and other decorative elements that align with your vision. Personalize your choices to reflect your unique love story and personality. 

Send out Invitations and RSVPs

From the guest list, with accurate addresses that you’ve prepared earlier, craft invitations and RSVPs. Ensure your invitation’s lettering and decor are consistent with your wedding theme.

Send out the invitations well in advance to allow guests to plan accordingly. Include RSVP cards or provide online RSVP options for convenience. Keep track of responses to finalize the guest count and inform vendors.

Plan the Reception

The reception is where the merriment starts for your guests. Therefore, plan for it by deciding on the format, such as a sit-down dinner, buffet, or cocktail party. Plan the menu and select food and beverages that cater to your guests’ tastes and dietary preferences.

Create a seating arrangement that encourages lively conversations and harmonious interaction and makes the wedding party feel comfortable for the guests. Coordinate with your chosen entertainment, whether a band, DJ, or other performers, to set the mood. Plan speeches, toasts, and any special dances you want to include.

Finalize Details

Review all your wedding plans and vendor contracts to confirm everything is in order. Double-check the timeline, including arrival and setup times for vendors. Make any necessary last-minute adjustments and communicate them to your vendors.

Ensure that you have all essential items, such as the rings, marriage license, and any special decor or items for the ceremony and reception.

Partake in the Wedding Rehearsal

Your wedding rehearsal is where you familiarize yourself with the ceremony’s proceedings. Gather your bridal party, officiant, and anyone involved in the ceremony to run through the sequence of events.

Practice the processional, recessional, and any rituals to ensure everyone knows their roles and the timing is perfect. Use this time to iron out potential issues and ensure everyone is comfortable and confident in their responsibilities.

Pack Emergency Kit for the Day

Creating an emergency kit for your wedding day is a practical and thoughtful preparation. Pack essential items that come in handy, such as safety pins, a sewing kit, stain remover, extra makeup, hairpins, pain relievers, and snacks.

Include items specific to your venue or climate, like sunscreen or umbrellas. Don’t forget to have a copy of your timeline, vendor contacts, and a fully charged phone. Assign a trustworthy member of your bridal party to carry the kit and be prepared to address any unexpected situations or emergencies during the day.


Planning a wedding can be tedious. However, following a set procedure can make it easier. Also, consider hiring vendors and enlisting friends to help reduce the stress.

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Hi! I am Ashley Durham and I am an east valley Phoenix wedding photographer, based in Surprise, Arizona. I love helping brides and grooms plan stress-free wedding days so that they can actually have fun and enjoy their celebration with incredible photos. If you’d like more information about me being your Arizona wedding photographer, please contact me about availability. 


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Heyyyy ... I'm Ashley Durham and I'm a luxury wedding photographer in Phoenix, but I travel all over Arizona and the desert southwest to hang out with the most incredible people. I am obsessed with puppies, extra hot coffee, sunrise and firmly believe that love conquers all.

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